
"My boss just texted me that I have to go to work now," the student announced. "Can I go?"
I looked at the student and then searched my brain for a reply. "I don't want to have this conversation now," I replied. I could see the rest of the class; they were becoming restless, shifting in their chairs.
"But my boss wants me now," the student continued. "Can I go?"
"You can do whatever you wish to do," I said. "This is not my decision; it's yours."
"Can I go?" The voice was plaintive now.
"I'm not going to tell you that it's fine for you to leave class," I said, "I'm not. It isn't. I am going to continue to do my job now, which is to teach this class."
The student stood there a moment or two and then returned to seat.

"I missed the last class," the student announced. "I need the handouts."
"I've posted them on Blackboard," I replied, feeling slightly triumphant, organized even, with a thin frosting of professionalism. I've been trying hard to make it easy this semester.
"I couldn't access Blackboard," the student went on. "Do we have a draft due today?"
"Yes," I replied, "and even if you missed the previous class, you should have known that because it was listed on the assignment sheet."
"I don't have the draft," the student replied. "Can I have the handouts for the last class?"
"I'll give them to you at the end of today's class," I replied. "Right now we need to get started. Even though you don't have a draft, you can participate. Take a seat."
"But I can't stay," the student said. "I need to leave now."
"Now?" I asked. "Why?"
"I have to go to work," the student said.

"I didn't know you had an office hour," the student said.
"It's on the syllabus," I replied.
"Can I have the handouts for the last class and for today?" the student asked.
"No," I said. "I need to begin class right now. We need to have this conversation another time."
Obviously angry, the student left.
I walked to the podium, placed my notes on it, only to be approached by two more smiling students.
"We need to leave early today," one of them said. "We have a game. Can you give us the work?"