Sunday, November 5, 2023

A Room with a View: An Update on Roy

On Saturday October 28, a little over a week ago, Roy received some disappointing health news.

While Roy initially assured Rebel Girl that he would send her a text to post here, that has not been possible. 

So she, his faithful co-conspirator on this blog for over a quarter century, is stepping in, knowing his intention to communicate and share. 

Roy's cancer has returned, or perhaps never completely left. Something about the blood/brain barrier and the failure of PET scans to detect such activity. Roy has two lesions in his brain that are a very aggressive form of lymphoma. 

His doctors have responded with a very aggressive plan that has already begun which includes chemotherapy and, toward the end, a bone marrow transplant. 

Sober optimism is called for, along with courage. Roy has both. 

All this is taking place at Hoag in Newport where Roy has an ocean view (see above). 

It's a view reminscent of the opening credits of Gilligan's Island which Roy and his brother Ron confirmed was indeed shot there in Newport. 

Visitors have been steady. 

Roy's appetite is good. Rebel Girl has enjoyed ordering meals for him. See his "dislikes" from one of his meal receipts (classic Roy):

Only at Hoag where one might order lamb, rabbit, veal, pheasant, goose or duck! What, no ostrich? 

Alas for Roy, no wine list, no beer. 

One day, dinner arrived on a tray along with a prayer request card. 

Hoag, it seems, desires to treat not just the body, but the spirit.

Rebel Girl read the card aloud to Roy. "Do you have any prayer requests?" she asked, anticipating a negative answer. 

But Roy did have a prayer request: "The swift death of Donald Trump." 

Clearly Roy's priorities are in order, his own health and the health of the republic. 

Friends, there is something to be said for an institution such as ours that has through the years created a community so strong that at any time Rebel Girl can drive to Hoag, pay top dollar to park in a parking structure, get her official visitor badge and wristband, make her way to one room or another and find Roy holding court with family, natch, but also colleagues, so many good pals.

Rebel Girl will keep you posted here. Please reach out to her with any questions or concerns you have.

 She is happy to pass along best wishes, cards, etc. Thank you friends.

 Here's some Big Star, one of Roy's favorite bands:

Roy's obituary in LA Times and Register: "we were lucky to have you while we did"

  This ran in the Sunday December 24, 2023 edition of the Los Angeles Times and the Orange County Register : July 14, 1955 - November 20, 2...