Sunday, November 28, 2010

Happy, complex kids

My folks invited over my brother's family and some friends. I provided the cake: super-duper Cheesecake Factory bombs, obscenely good. Mom cooked up the usual feast. A good time was had by all.
Young Catherine offers me a posie. She plays with her siblings, but she also drifts into her own world a lot. She has conversations with her dolls, teddy bears, etc. She sings songs to herself. She can have a ferocious will.
Catherine, Adam, and Natalie.
Catherine and Natalie seem to naturally support each other,  enjoy each other. Six-year-old Adam, the only boy, is the odd man out, but he seems happy. He's got a big and easy smile. He can obsess over justice in his relation with his three sisters. I'm trying to get him to chill out.
Sarah is seven, but she is very tall, smart; seems like a teenager. These kids are happy, but Sarah seems to have an especially rich internal life that gives her a special gravity. "What goes on in there?" I ask. "Nothing," she says. She broods a bit. Is that a good thing? Not sure. But life is good for young Sarah, as it is for each of these kids.
Catherine and Sarah

Don't care for the look, but always liked the song

Always a fan of this star-crossed band

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Nice posies.

Anonymous said...

What was the flavor of the Cheesecake Factory bombs?

Roy Bauer said...

One of 'em was some kind of pumpkin cheesecake. The other one seemed to have a caramel theme (including a topping of caramel candies). The kids really went after that one. Somehow, they intuit which cake is maximally kid friendly.

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